The 9 Levers / Read
3 See the Dark Move
Know the hidden tricks so nobody plays you.
Fake weakness, charm that hides aggression, playing the victim, one honest act to cover a bigger lie. You don't learn these to use them — you learn them so they stop working on you. Judge people by what they repeat, not by what they promise.
Built from: The 48 Laws of Power; The Laws of Human Nature; The 33 Strategies of War; The Art of War; The Art of Seduction; King, Warrior, Magician, Lover; The Fine Art Of Small Talk.
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- How to Judge People by What They Do, Not What They SayCharm and promises are cheap. Five steps to read people by their pattern of behaviour, at work and in dating, without labelling everyone a villain.
- How to Spot Manipulation: 12 Tactics and Calm AnswersThe common manipulation tactics at work and at home, how to spot each one, and a calm line you can say back. Defence only, no tricks.
- In Sheep's Clothing Review: Does Simon's Model Hold Up?Our review of George K. Simon's In Sheep's Clothing: what it teaches about covert aggression, where it is too simple, and how to use it safely.
- Negotiation Tricks and How to Answer Each One CalmlySix common negotiation tricks, from the extreme first offer to good cop and bad cop. See each one, name it without blame, and answer it in plain words.
- Office Politics: How to Win Without Becoming a SnakeOffice politics is real, and ignoring it costs you. Learn to read the game, build allies, protect yourself and win while keeping your name clean.
- Signs Someone Is Manipulating You: 7 Patterns and AnswersSeven signs that someone is working you, from vague answers to guilt that arrives on cue. For each: how to see it, name it and answer it calmly.
- The 48 Laws of Power Review: What Holds and What BreaksOur verdict on Robert Greene's The 48 Laws of Power: what is true about power, which laws backfire at work, and how to use it cleanly.
- When Someone Takes Credit for Your Work: What to DoA colleague or boss took credit for your work. How to prevent it, respond calmly, escalate if needed, and know when to let it go.
- Influence by Cialdini Review: 6 Shortcuts and Their LimitsOur review of Robert Cialdini's Influence: the six triggers behind a quick yes, where the evidence is thin, and how to use them honestly.
- Is The 48 Laws of Power Evil? An Honest AnswerIs Robert Greene's book evil, or just honest? Which laws are tools, which are traps, and how to use the book without turning into the person it describes.